Wouldn’t it be great if everyone gave you love and support on your hiking goals verse passing on the fears they have. I know that would be a magical world but why can’t it become reality?
The truth is when people tell you,
“you can’t do that,”
“you shouldn’t do that,”
“it isn’t safe to do that,” or
“you’re crazy for doing that”
it is really THERE OWN fears, uncertainty, limiting beliefs, and bullshit. It is not you at all. They are passing on to you what they think of themselves.
Knowing this helps us give these people grace and let them know
“while I love you and respect you, your views on this will not stop me or change my mind as I know I prepared and ready to tackle this!”
But guess what?!? There are people, fabulous people, out there that will give you the love and support you need even if it personally freaks them out. Instead of being negative about they turn the script and ask the most amazing question.
“How can I support you on this adventure!”
These are the people we want in our corner cheering us on, being there to listen, being there to share the experience with, and celebrating our accomplishments. These are the high vibe tribe we all need.
Personally, I’d like to take a moment publicly to thank my National Park Check-In Crew. Y’all give me to confidence to keep hitting the trails at National Parks solo as I know y’all would move heaven and earth if anything ever happened to help me. Love y’all so much!
So I ask you all starting today to support each other more and ask how you can help rather than being quick to pass your own personal fears onto another person. Together we can lift each other up and do things we thought where not possible.
Drop a 💖 if you are ready to be strong trail sisters (and brothers) together!
🥾 See you on the trail… solo!
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Be Trail Strong – Be Trail Fab
Coach RJ
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